"The Journey of a Thousand Miles Begins with a Single Step." Lao Tzo
Stop living on autopilot
Stop living by default
Start creating Your life & relationship by design
You weren’t meant to just “get through” your life.
But somewhere along the way, you slipped into autopilot.
You "checked" all the boxes.
You adapted to what was needed of you.
You overfunctioned.
You held everything together.
You became the person everyone depends on.
And slowly, without even realizing it...
You stopped checking in with yourself.
Now, on the outside, your life looks like success.
But inside, something feels different...
maybe even off.
You might be feeling:
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Emotionally disconnected in your relationship
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Conversations that feel more like logistics than connection
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Giving so much, yet feeling unseen and unheard
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Doubting yourself, even when you know you’re capable
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Asking yourself quietly but urgently: “Is this all there is?”
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This isn’t just about your relationship.
It’s not about confidence.
It’s about your life and the default patterns you’ve been running on.
A life shaped by conditioning, duty, and survival… instead of choice, clarity, and trusting yourself.
You Have a Life That Looks Fine…
So Why Doesn’t It Feel Fine?
On the outside, you are capable, responsible, and high-functioning.You’ve built a life many people admire.
You’ve held your family together. Supported your partner. Managed responsibilities. Kept everything moving.
But over time, something quietly shifted.You didn’t notice it happening all at once.It happened slowly.
In the background of everyday life.
And now you feel it...
Emotional disconnection in your relationship
Conversations that feel like logistics instead of intimacy
Feeling unseen, unappreciated, or emotionally alone
Over-giving and still not feeling met
Struggling to express needs without guilt or over-explaining
Second-guessing yourself despite being self-aware and successful
A quiet sense that you’ve drifted away from yourself
And the most frustrating part?
You’ve already done the work.You’ve read the books.
Had the insights.
Tried to communicate better.
So why hasn’t it changed how you feel?
Because this is not an information problem.
It’s not about trying harder.
It’s a default living problem.
A life built on conditioning, responsibility, and emotional survival patterns instead of intention, values, and self-trust.
There Is Another Way
A way where you don’t abandon yourself to be loved.
A way where your needs are not an afterthought.
A way where your relationships feel connected, not transactional.
A way where your decisions reflect your values... not your conditioning.
This is what I call:
Life and Love by Design™
What Becomes Possible When You Stop Living by Default:
Trust Yourself Again
Stop second-guessing your feelings, needs, and decisions
Create Deeper Love & Emotional Connection
Feel seen, heard, and emotionally met in your relationships
Design a Life That Reflects Who You Are Now
Make decisions based on your values... not old conditioning or survival patterns
Your Path to Transformation Starts Here
I offer two powerful coaching experiences designed to help you create the life and love you truly desire.
Whether you’re ready to step fully into your power as an individual or you want to deepen and transform your relationship.
Option #1
The Next Level Woman™
Life & Love by Design for Women Ready to Create Their Best Next Chapter
Your 6-month private 1:1 coaching and mentorship experience
This is for the woman who’s done surviving and is ready to thrive. Together, we’ll uncover what’s keeping you stuck, silence the self-doubt, and build your life and relationships on your terms — with clarity, confidence, and deep joy. You will:
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Reconnect with your authentic self
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Break free from old patterns that no longer serve you
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Design a life and love that feel purposeful and fulfilling
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Receive personalized guidance and support every step of the way
If you’re ready to become the woman you’ve always meant to be, this is your journey.
LEARN MORE ABOUT NEXT LEVEL WOMAN
Option #2
Marriage Mastery™
for Couples
Create Your Relationship by Design, Not by Default.
Transform your marriage with focused coaching for lasting connection
Marriage isn’t always easy, but it can be deeply rewarding. This coaching is for couples who want to break old cycles and build a relationship based on trust, understanding, and true intimacy. Together, we’ll:
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Improve communication and emotional connection
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Navigate challenges with tools that work
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Rekindle the love and friendship that brought you together
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Create a partnership where both of you feel seen, heard, and valued
If you want to move beyond frustration and create the marriage of your dreams, you’re in the right place.
There Is Another Way to Live.
The Next Level Woman™ Experience
is a 6-month private 1:1 mentorship designed to help you stop living by default and start living Life and Love by Design.
This is not about fixing your relationship.
And it’s not about becoming a different person.
It’s about rebuilding your relationship with yourself first.
Inside this work, we move you from...
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Self-abandonment → Self-trust
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Overgiving → Clear boundaries and receiving
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Emotional reactivity → Emotional leadership
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Confusion → Clarity around needs and values
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Default life → Designed life
the 5 PILLAR The Framework Behind Your Transformation
AWAKEN™
You become aware of the patterns driving your emotional and relational life.
RECLAIM™
You rebuild self-trust, boundaries, and your ability to voice your needs.
ELEVATE™
You develop emotional mastery and shift reactive patterns into grounded leadership.
DESIGN™
You intentionally create relationships and a life aligned with your values and needs.
EMBODY™
You become the woman who lives this naturally...
not occasionally.
WHAT YOU EXPERIENCE INSIDE NEXT LEVEL WOMAN™
Over 6 months, we focus on:
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Rebuilding self-trust in real time
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Learning to identify and communicate emotional needs clearly
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Ending patterns of overgiving and self-abandonment
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Creating boundaries that hold under emotional pressure
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Understanding your values as a decision-making compass
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Designing a life and relationship that feel aligned and fulfilling
Ready for a change?
For Couples Who Want to Rebuild Emotional Connection
Not every relationship breaks because of one big moment.
Most don’t. Marriages don’t usually fall apart because of a single event. They shift slowly over time.
Through small moments that often go unnoticed:
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Missed conversations
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Fading intimacy
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Feeling unheard or emotionally dismissed
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Unspoken needs
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Growing emotional distance
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Falling into routines that feel more like logistics than connection
And eventually, what once felt close starts to feel like two people living parallel lives… more like roommates than partners.
This is where couples begin to lose each other... not in one dramatic moment, but in the quiet accumulation of disconnection.
Marriage Mastery™
A private couples coaching experience designed to help you:
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Rebuild emotional connection
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Improve communication without blame or shutdown
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Restore intimacy and understanding
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Break repetitive conflict cycles
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Create a stronger, more conscious relationship
Begin a Journey to a More Connected, Fulfilling Life & Love
Stop going through the motions. Reconnect with yourself, close the distance in your relationship, and create a life and love that feel truly alive and meaningful. You don’t have to settle for walking on eggshells, disconnection, or simmering resentment. Change starts with seeing the patterns clearly, understanding what’s really driving them, and taking intentional action, one step at a time.
HERE’S HOW YOU MIGHT BE EXPERIENCING IT NOW:
Thoughts keeping you up at Night
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I’m just going through the motions
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I don’t know how to fix this
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We’ve grown apart
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I can’t get my partner to see me
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I’m failing as a partner
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I’m losing myself
A Rollercoaster of Emotions
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Loneliness
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Frustration
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Feeling unappreciated
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Overwhelm
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Tiredness
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Anxiety about the future
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Guilt or shame
Doing the Best You Can, but sometimes making things worse
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Avoiding tough conversations
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Snapping at loved ones
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Ignoring my own needs
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Overworking or overcommitting
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Pretending everything is fine
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Distracting myself instead of addressing problems
Current Situation
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Feeling disconnected from your partner
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Struggling to communicate or connect
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Neglecting your own well-being
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Missing out on joy and intimacy
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Feeling trapped in a life that isn’t fully yours
WHEN YOU HAVE A PLAN, YOU CAN RECONNECT, REIGNITE, AND REDESIGN YOUR LIFE & LOVE
When you stop living on autopilot and start being intentional, everything begins to shift... how you think, feel, and show up in your relationship and your life.
THE RESULT... A LIFE AND LOVE THAT FEEL ALIVE AGAIN
Letting your mind rest because your heart feels settled
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I’m no longer stuck... I’m creating change.
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I know what I want and how to get there.
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I can communicate with clarity and confidence.
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I’m proud of who I’m becoming.
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My relationship and my happiness are worth the effort.
Feeling centered and grounded
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Calm and centered, instead of anxious or reactive.
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Confident in yourself and your choices.
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Connected to your partner and your purpose.
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Seen, valued, and supported.
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Hopeful and excited about the future.
Taking intentional actions that create Positive Change
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Communicate openly and with compassion.
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Set healthy boundaries without guilt.
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Choose connection over conflict.
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Make time for joy, laughter, and intimacy.
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Prioritize yourself and your relationship — intentionally.
Your Transformation
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Wake up feeling lighter, more grounded, and genuinely excited about your day.
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Feel calm, confident, and clear about who you are and what you want.
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Trust yourself and your decisions instead of constantly second-guessing.
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Communicate with honesty, empathy, and ease... even in hard moments.
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Feel seen, appreciated, and emotionally connected to your partner again.
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Laugh more, love deeper, and create moments that actually feel good.
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Set healthy boundaries and prioritize your well-being without guilt.
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Experience peace in your mind, your heart, and your home.
It's really possible!
You can move from disconnection, frustration, and self-doubt to confidence, clarity, and deep connection... creating a relationship and life that truly feel like yours.
Feeling stuck or disconnected?
These people were too... and coaching helped them create the life and love they truly wanted.
"I met Odette when I was in a very intense introspective journey. I am so grateful that the universe sent me Odette as a guide through this journey. She led me to insights I was probably reluctant to see with compassion and her own brand of assertiveness. Thank you Odette for the breakthroughs that I have had. They are life transforming. I will always be grateful for your guidance."
S.S.
"I was absolutely struggling emotionally & felt an emotional block or stuckness that I had not been able to remove myself. It literally felt like I had a huge rock in the middle of my core/chest area. Words cannot express the gratitude I have for this woman. I felt something transformative happen. I no longer feel bound by fear, self-doubt & shame. I've gained a new self-confidence.... help shift my perspective & energy. I want to say thank you to Odette for your energy & support. I mean seriously words cannot describe how fortunate I feel to have had this coaching opportunity & experience. I've experienced a transformative shift in energy & it's because of your empathetic listening, curious questioning and providing a safe space for me to heal."
L.L.
“Before I started working with Odette, I often told myself a story that certain things about me were working against me and I took everything others did in my presence personally. Through working with her on myself and my self-esteem, I realized that I have the power to change my story and to take control of my life. I discovered that the most important relationship I have is with myself and that I am whole and complete and perfectly imperfect as I am right now. I found that I am inherently lovable just for being me, and that in order to be open-hearted, I have to find and create the things I love about myself and my life and do more of them. Now, my life is more fulfilling and I have made some major changes in both the physical and mental aspects of my life. I have recommended Odette to several friends and gush about how powerful and insightful her coaching is. For anyone who wants to make major mindset shifts, there is no one better!”
M.B.
What to Expect in Coaching
When you work with me, you’re not just talking about your relationship or life... you’re creating real, lasting change. My coaching program is designed to help you reconnect with yourself, strengthen your relationships, and live a life filled with clarity, confidence, and joy.
HERE’S WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT:
Weekly Private 1:1 or Couples Sessions
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Personalized coaching sessions to focus on your unique goals and challenges
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Strategies to rebuild connection, communicate effectively, and create lasting change
Personal Google Folder
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A private folder with all your session notes, resources, and customized exercises
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Easy access to tools and guidance anytime you need them
Email & Text Support Between Sessions
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Guidance and support whenever questions or challenges come up
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Stay accountable and supported between sessions
Life & Relationship Assessments
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Life Audit Assessment to evaluate what’s working and what needs attention
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Relationship Check-In Assessment to understand the current state of your connection and identify areas for growth
Clarity, Tools & Transformation
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Identify patterns that keep you stuck and gain insight into your emotions and relationships
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Learn practical tools to strengthen intimacy, trust, and emotional closeness
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Build confidence, reduce stress, and take intentional action toward a fulfilling life
Check Out My Podcast!
LIFE AND LOVE BY DESIGN
Available on Spotify, Apple Podcast & YouTube
WHY WORk WITH ME
✔️ Featured
Life & Relationship Expert
As a trusted voice in the field, I'm the host of the Life and Love by Designg podcast. I’ve been featured on internationally syndicated TV, radio, and podcasts including The Daily Flash, El Flash Latino, and NYC’s AM970 radio show Conversations with Joan, alongside world-renowned guests like Mel Robbins, Deepak Chopra, and Gary Chapman.
✔️ Evidence-Based Coaching
I’m an Accredited Professional Coach, Coach Supervisor, and NLP Practitioner, Relationship/Marriage Mentor trained in The Gottman Method, Positive Intelligence, and other evidence-based approaches that drive real, lasting transformation.
✔️ RESULTS THAT TRANSFORM LIVES
My clients go from feeling stuck, disconnected, or unfulfilled to confidently creating the life and love they’ve always wanted. Whether it’s breaking old patterns, setting healthy boundaries, reigniting passion, or building self-worth — they walk away with clarity, confidence, and connection from the inside out.
